A Royal Wedding
Opening Prayer
Eternal God, You are the giver of every good and perfect gift. Today I thank You for the gift of marriage.
Read Psalm 45
[1] For the director of music. To the tune of “Lilies.” Of the Sons of Korah. A
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Meditate
“There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage” (Martin Luther, 1483–1546).
Think Further
We have all seen times when whole countries come together to express common identity and common emotions. These may be happy times, celebrating perhaps a royal or presidential wedding, or an international sports victory. One of my earliest memories as a tiny child was the street party marking Queen Elizabeth II’s coronation. Or they may be times of national mourning on the death of a well-loved leader or after a terrible terrorist attack. In some countries a poet laureate (a poet who is honored by being chosen for an official position by a ruler or government) is commissioned to write poetry to mark such occasions.
Psalm 45 is sometimes thought to be referring to the Messiah, but there seems to be no good reason to believe that it is anything other than what it appears to be: a song to celebrate the wedding of a king. Some have found verse 6 worrying, thinking that it implies that the king is being identified with God—but it is really stressing that in Israel the “throne” (6; i.e., the institution of kingship) has been instituted by God and belongs to God. God was involved in the coronation of the king (7) and he is interested in and concerned about the king’s wedding.
The writer conveys his understanding of what was involved in weddings. We actually know very little about the ceremonies at this time and must be careful about reading in our own ideas. The conclusion of one writer—that the phrase “All glorious is the princess within her chamber” (13) means that women were supposed always to stay inside—can be disputed by other passages. What is very clear is that God is interested in the whole of our lives. The psalms we have looked at recently show he cares about our sorrows; this one shows that he cares about our joys.
Apply
For what is the groom praised? What are the most appealing qualities of the bride? What is the most helpful verse for you in this passage?
Closing prayer
God, my God, I want to share my life with You. May I recognize Your presence in my life. May I also recognize Your presence in my community when I celebrate or mourn with others.
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