WHAT SERVES HOLINESS?
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Opening Prayer
Holy God, use your Word to encourage and convict me today. Remind me that there is nothing I cannot do if you have called me to it.
Read 1 CORINTHIANS 7:25–40
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Concerning the Unmarried
25 Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. 26 Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for a man to remain as he is. 27 Are you pledged to a woman? Do not seek to be released. Are you free from such a commitment? Do not look for a wife. 28 But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.
29 What I mean, brothers and sisters, is that the time is short. From now on those who have wives should live as if they do not; 30 those who mourn, as if they did not; those who are happy, as if they were not; those who buy something, as if it were not theirs to keep; 31 those who use the things of the world, as if not engrossed in them. For this world in its present form is passing away.
32 I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. 33 But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— 34 and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 35 I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.
36 If anyone is worried that he might not be acting honorably toward the virgin he is engaged to, and if his passions are too strong[a] and he feels he ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not sinning. They should get married. 37 But the man who has settled the matter in his own mind, who is under no compulsion but has control over his own will, and who has made up his mind not to marry the virgin—this man also does the right thing. 38 So then, he who marries the virgin does right, but he who does not marry her does better.[b]
39 A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. 40 In my judgment, she is happier if she stays as she is—and I think that I too have the Spirit of God.
Footnotes
- 1 Corinthians 7:36 Or if she is getting beyond the usual age for marriage
- 1 Corinthians 7:38 Or 36 If anyone thinks he is not treating his daughter properly, and if she is getting along in years (or if her passions are too strong), and he feels she ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not sinning. He should let her get married. 37 But the man who has settled the matter in his own mind, who is under no compulsion but has control over his own will, and who has made up his mind to keep the virgin unmarried—this man also does the right thing. 38 So then, he who gives his virgin in marriage does right, but he who does not give her in marriage does better.
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Reflect
Are there customs or traditions in your church or family that you struggle about their being right or wrong?Paul’s concern here is both pastoral and practical. Without a specific command from the Lord, Paul trusts in God’s mercy and his own discernment to give wise advice (vv. 25, 40). Paul’s challenge is that the Corinthians want clarity in choosing between two outcomes that are both good. Paul’s response can best be summed up as asking the question, ‘What best serves holiness?’
The context isn’t clear. It might be there was an imminent expectation that the Lord would return (v. 29: ‘the time is short’), but the ‘present crisis’ (v. 26) might suggest a local context (perhaps the unexpected deaths referred to in 1 Corinthians 11:27–32). That second background would change the advice to remain unmarried into advice to wait until the crisis has passed.
Against that background, Paul recommends celibacy because an unmarried person has fewer concerns that pull them away from an ‘undivided devotion’ to the Lord’s purposes (v. 35). While being a spouse and a parent are both undeniably good things, they’re inevitably distracting (vv. 33, 34). Choosing to marry rather than remain unmarried is not choosing wrongly, but Paul dares to say that choosing celibacy is even better because it best serves holiness (v. 38).
Apply
‘Undivided devotion’ (v. 35) sets a high bar for all of us. Regardless of being married or single, what steps toward this could you take?
Closing prayer
I pray for my church congregation today, Father, that your mercy and grace would be at work in people, both married and single. Give each a sense of your calling and vision for serving you wholeheartedly.
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