Trail of Regrets
Opening Prayer
God, open my heart to receive from Your Word any correction You may have for my life.
Read Genesis 20:1–18
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[1] Now Abraham moved on from there into the region of the Negev and lived between Kadesh and Shur. For a while he stayed in Gerar, [2] and there Abraham said of his wife Sarah, “She is my sister.” Then Abimelek king of Gerar sent for Sarah and took her. [3] But God came to Abimelek in a dream one night and said to him, “You are as good as dead because of the woman you have taken; she is a married woman.” [4] Now Abimelek had not gone near her, so he said, “Lord, will you destroy an innocent nation? [5] Did he not say to me, ‘She is my sister,’ and didn’t she also say, ‘He is my brother’? I have done this with a clear conscience and clean hands.” [6] Then God said to him in the dream, “Yes, I know you did this with a clear conscience, and so I have kept you from sinning against me. That is why I did not let you touch her. [7] Now return the man’s wife, for he is a prophet, and he will pray for you and you will live. But if you do not return her, you may be sure that you and all who belong to you will die.” [8] Early the next morning Abimelek summoned all his officials, and when he told them all that had happened, they were very much afraid. [9] Then Abimelek called Abraham in and said, “What have you done to us? How have I wronged you that you have brought such great guilt upon me and my kingdom? You have done things to me that should never be done.” [10] And Abimelek asked Abraham, “What was your reason for doing this?” [11] Abraham replied, “I said to myself, ‘There is surely no fear of God in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife.’ [12] Besides, she really is my sister, the daughter of my father though not of my mother; and she became my wife. [13] And when God had me wander from my father’s household, I said to her, ‘This is how you can show your love to me: Everywhere we go, say of me, “He is my brother.”‘” [14] Then Abimelek brought sheep and cattle and male and female slaves and gave them to Abraham, and he returned Sarah his wife to him. [15] And Abimelek said, “My land is before you; live wherever you like.” [16] To Sarah he said, “I am giving your brother a thousand shekels of silver. This is to cover the offense against you before all who are with you; you are completely vindicated.” [17] Then Abraham prayed to God, and God healed Abimelek, his wife and his female slaves so they could have children again, [18] for the LORD had kept all the women in Abimelek’s household from conceiving because of Abraham’s wife Sarah. Scripture taken from the THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION, NIV Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.
Reflect
Have you ever suddenly discovered that some part of your lifestyle is displeasing to God? Abraham faithfully follows the call of God “even though he did not know where he was going”(Heb. 11:8). But wherever he goes, he seems afraid of foreign kings wanting to marry his wifeSarah and then killing him. So together he and Sarah make up the brother/sister story (which isactually true), and keep quiet about their husband/wife status, here and in Genesis 12:11,13. It’sas if Abraham is saying, “You can have her as long as you leave me alone.” I wonder what Sarahreally thinks of this.Fortunately for all, God keeps King Abimelech from sleeping with Sarah. The king is innocent(though needing to make things clear publicly). Sarah is innocent. Abraham… well, what do youthink?Abraham’s fear and failings are written in Scripture for everyone to see and learn from so wedon’t make the same kind of mistake. Our fears and failings aren’t made so public, but as wetravel from place to place through our lives, we too will leave a trail of secret regrets. DidAbraham have any? His prayer in verse 17 suggests maybe so.Abraham faithfully follows the call of God “even though he did not know where he was going” (Heb. 11:8). But wherever he goes, he seems afraid of foreign kings wanting to marry his wife Sarah and then killing him. So together he and Sarah make up the brother/sister story (which is actually true), and keep quiet about their husband/wife status, here and in Genesis 12:11,13. It’s as if Abraham is saying, “You can have her as long as you leave me alone.” I wonder what Sarah really thinks of this.
Fortunately for all, God keeps King Abimelech from sleeping with Sarah. The king is innocent (though needing to make things clear publicly). Sarah is innocent. Abraham… well, what do you think?
Abraham’s fear and failings are written in Scripture for everyone to see and learn from so we don’t make the same kind of mistake. Our fears and failings aren’t made so public, but as we travel from place to place through our lives, we too will leave a trail of secret regrets. Did Abraham have any? His prayer in verse 17 suggests maybe so.
Apply
Ask God to forgive the times when you have messed things up by going your own way.
Closing prayer
“Search me, God, and know my heart… See if there is any offensive way in me…” (Psa. 139:23,24).
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