Lord, my honor depends on You. May I be like David, who did not seek his own honor, but waited for You.
Read 2 Samuel 2:1-3:1
 In the course of time, David inquired of the LORD. “Shall I go up to one of the towns of Judah?” he asked. The LORD said, “Go up.” David asked, “Where shall I go?” “To Hebron,” the LORD answered.  So David went up there with his two wives, Ahinoam of Jezreel and Abigail, the widow of Nabal of Carmel.  David also took the men who were with him, each with his family, and they settled in Hebron and its towns.  Then the men of Judah came to Hebron, and there they anointed David king over the tribe of Judah. When David was told that it was the men from Jabesh Gilead who had buried Saul,  he sent messengers to them to say to them, “The LORD bless you for showing this kindness to Saul your master by burying him.  May the LORD now show you kindness and faithfulness, and I too will show you the same favor because you have done this.  Now then, be strong and brave, for Saul your master is dead, and the people of Judah have anointed me king over them.”  Meanwhile, Abner son of Ner, the commander of Saul’s army, had taken Ish-Bosheth son of Saul and brought him over to Mahanaim.  He made him king over Gilead, Ashuri and Jezreel, and also over Ephraim, Benjamin and all Israel.  Ish-Bosheth son of Saul was forty years old when he became king over Israel, and he reigned two years. The tribe of Judah, however, remained loyal to David.  The length of time David was king in Hebron over Judah was seven years and six months.  Abner son of Ner, together with the men of Ish-Bosheth son of Saul, left Mahanaim and went to Gibeon.  Joab son of Zeruiah and David’s men went out and met them at the pool of Gibeon. One group sat down on one side of the pool and one group on the other side.  Then Abner said to Joab, “Let’s have some of the young men get up and fight hand to hand in front of us.” “All right, let them do it,” Joab said.  So they stood up and were counted off-twelve men for Benjamin and Ish-Bosheth son of Saul, and twelve for David.  Then each man grabbed his opponent by the head and thrust his dagger into his opponent’s side, and they fell down together. So that place in Gibeon was called Helkath Hazzurim.  The battle that day was very fierce, and Abner and the Israelites were defeated by David’s men.  The three sons of Zeruiah were there: Joab, Abishai and Asahel. Now Asahel was as fleet-footed as a wild gazelle.  He chased Abner, turning neither to the right nor to the left as he pursued him.  Abner looked behind him and asked, “Is that you, Asahel?” “It is,” he answered.  Then Abner said to him, “Turn aside to the right or to the left; take on one of the young men and strip him of his weapons.” But Asahel would not stop chasing him.  Again Abner warned Asahel, “Stop chasing me! Why should I strike you down? How could I look your brother Joab in the face?”  But Asahel refused to give up the pursuit; so Abner thrust the butt of his spear into Asahel’s stomach, and the spear came out through his back. He fell there and died on the spot. And every man stopped when he came to the place where Asahel had fallen and died.  But Joab and Abishai pursued Abner, and as the sun was setting, they came to the hill of Ammah, near Giah on the way to the wasteland of Gibeon.  Then the men of Benjamin rallied behind Abner. They formed themselves into a group and took their stand on top of a hill.  Abner called out to Joab, “Must the sword devour forever? Don’t you realize that this will end in bitterness? How long before you order your men to stop pursuing their fellow Israelites?”  Joab answered, “As surely as God lives, if you had not spoken, the men would have continued pursuing them until morning.”  So Joab blew the trumpet, and all the troops came to a halt; they no longer pursued Israel, nor did they fight anymore.  All that night Abner and his men marched through the Arabah. They crossed the Jordan, continued through the morning hours and came to Mahanaim.  Then Joab stopped pursuing Abner and assembled the whole army. Besides Asahel, nineteen of David’s men were found missing.  But David’s men had killed three hundred and sixty Benjamites who were with Abner.  They took Asahel and buried him in his father’s tomb at Bethlehem. Then Joab and his men marched all night and arrived at Hebron by daybreak.  The war between the house of Saul and the house of David lasted a long time. David grew stronger and stronger, while the house of Saul grew weaker and weaker. Scripture taken from the THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION, NIV Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.
ReflectDo you find it difficult to wait for God to fulfill his promises?
David had been anointed by the prophet Samuel (1 Sam. 16). When Saul died he could easily have thought he would immediately be announced king of all Israel. However, David was only the king of Judah in the south (7), whereas Ish-bosheth was king of the northern kingdom of Israel (10).David did not get discouraged or doubt God. Instead he trusted God and continued to wait patiently for God’s promises to be fulfilled. We should do likewise. Genuine Christian leadership can never be obtained by manipulation or by seizing power. We can see this as David’s enemies fail without David’s intervention. Ish-bosheth is later murdered (ch. 4), but once again David punishes Ish-bosheth’s killers rather than reward them. We may sense God calling us to serve him within the church or a Christian organization or in the workplace. Yet we may have to wait a long time for the promised door to open. Until this happens, we should serve faithfully and ethically, performing to the best of our abilities. David did not seek the destruction of his enemies but focused on serving God. We should do likewise.
Are you waiting patiently for God to fulfill a promise to you? Talk to God about it and listen for what he is saying.
God, You are fully reliable. Help me remember that Jesus first humbled himself to the point of death before being lifted up.
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